Balancing Your Emotions Through Cancer
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PART 1 – Accepting Opposites
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Complete the following sentences for yourself by coming up with an opposite perspective:
I love myself AND I would like to change ______________ .
I have support from friends or family AND I need __________ right now.
I have been doing everything I can to beat cancer AND I feel ____________.
PART 2 – Validating Your Feelings
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Try to think of a negative event from the past where it felt nearly impossible for you to focus on anything positive. Write it down.
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Now write down one or two things that you had discounted because you were caught up in the negativity of the moment.
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Since your cancer diagnosis, have you ever felt angry or frustrated towards someone close to you, but you may have discounted their feelings or intentions? Write it down.
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In hindsight, are you able to see things from their perspective?
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Your feelings are still valid. Write down a statement that will validate the way you were feeling AND respect how they were feeling.
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PART 3 – Moving Forward
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Complete the following sentences:
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1. ​I feel as though cancer has turning my life upside down AND ___________.
2. Cancer has affected my relationship with ____________ AND___________.
3. I don’t feel like continuing with cancer treatment AND________________.
4. Nobody really understands what I’m going through AND______________.
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